People fleeing abusive relationships may stay in domestic violence shelters. They may rent a room in a different neighborhood where they can avoid their spouse throughout the divorce. They may live temporarily with friends or family.
Domestic violence tends to escalate when people try to leave abusive relationships. Those trying to protect themselves may want to keep their current residences private. Thankfully, New Jersey does offer special programs that can allow for a victim of domestic violence to move forward with a legal divorce without disclosing their current address.
The state can help protect the victim’s privacy
New Jersey has an Address Confidentiality Program in place for victims of domestic violence, stalking and similar forms of abuse. They can request a state-provided post office box address. That address then becomes their legal mailing address. They can use that address on most documents and paperwork instead of disclosing their current residential address.
Other times, it may be possible to pursue divorce as a confidential litigant. The submission of a specific document in addition to standard divorce paperwork may allow the filing spouse to protect their privacy and keep their address confidential for their protection throughout the divorce process.
The spouse leaving a dangerous situation can often prevent the disclosure of their current address on court paperwork with the right support, although there may be complications to address in situations involving minor children.
Those afraid for their safety during divorce may need help understanding the systems in place for their protection. Working with an attorney familiar with domestic violence legal matters can be beneficial for those hoping to safely exit an abusive marriage.

