Domestic violence is one of the most common reasons that people divorce. Those experiencing physical violence, emotional abuse and even financial abuse may choose to leave a situation that is unsafe.
Unfortunately, the act of leaving is dangerous in its own right. According to an assessment of domestic violence, the 18 months after a victim of domestic violence attempts to leave a relationship may be the most dangerous time for them.
Abusers abandoned by their partners may stalk, harass and attack their former partners. Seeking a restraining order may help protect those experiencing abuse against the risk of escalating domestic violence.
Restraining orders create consequences
Some people downplay the usefulness of restraining orders. They claim that they are just pieces of paper that do nothing to prevent violence. There is a degree of truth to that statement.
However, people who are aware that there is a restraining order in place may be more reticent to repeatedly approach or otherwise harass a former romantic partner. Additionally, the restraining order creates recourse for the person in fear for their safety.
If the other party contacts them, shows up at their home or otherwise violates the restraining order, police officers can intervene. Calling for support allows the victim of domestic violence to limit confrontations and to document violations of the restraining order. Repeat violations might lead to incarceration and other consequences for the person subject to the restraining order.
Given how dangerous leaving an abuser can be, pursuing a restraining order before initiating divorce proceedings can be a smart decision. Preparing in advance while trying to leave a situation involving domestic violence may help people protect themselves and any children who may also be at risk.