Parents who aren’t in a relationship any longer have to figure out how they can set up the parenting plan so it’s in the child’s best interests. There are various terms that can be included in this plan.
One term to consider adding, particularly if your children are younger, is the right of first refusal. This is a requirement that the parent who has the children with them gives the other parent a chance to watch the children before they hire a babysitter.
Why is the right of first important?
The right of first refusal gives both parents additional opportunities to spend time with the children. This can help to strengthen the bond and can provide in-person time together between the parenting times for the parent who doesn’t currently have the children with them.
The terms set by the right of first refusal should include a minimum amount of time that the childcare is needed. This time should be outlined in the plan. The parent who needs childcare should tell the other parent as soon as they know of the need so the other parent has a chance to determine if they will be able to watch the children. It may be necessary to set a limit for how long the parent has to reply when the other parent lets them know they need childcare.
Making sure that the parenting plan is set up in a way that makes it easy for everyone involved to have an idea of what to expect. Working with someone who can help you determine specific terms to include may be beneficial for anyone in this position.